Andrea,
It's not what you think......or is it?
HA! I just wanted to write this to see what sex your cat is? Your description of it makes me think it would be a perfect match for my cat ( she's a girl named Tela) She is extremely laid back but the trhing is, she is into stuck up boy cats. You know , the ones that think their *$^& doesn't stink. And that sounds like your cat.
Tela has been alone now for a year and a half and she gets lonely, although she loves her daddy very much.
She needs another feline to explore and appreciate the world around us, I can send a pic of her if you want:)
Hope you have a great day !
Luke

Hey there. Yep, Leo is a boy. He is stuck up with other people, but with me he's a big old wuss. So I'm kind of embarassed when friends come over-- I feel like I'm talking about a dysfunctional boyfriend... You know, like "Noooo, you should see him when it's just the two of us... He's not really like this... He's really sweet." My friends are like "suuuure." They think I'm in denial. But you never know, maybe your kitty could unlock the keys to his heart... It could be a Disney movie waiting to happen. :laugh:

Andrea,
That sounds like a great movie, It's like the modern day Milo & Otis:)
Although my cat is sad today....
There is this family of stray cats that live outside of my apt. and today one of the kids in the family was dead outside my window. I think it might have froze to death it has been pretty cold down here in Georgia. So Tela was just sittin at the window staring at it when I went over to see what she was looking at I noticed it- so I had to put Tela in another room b/c I didn't want her to look at it-so it was really sad this morning-
Question though-does your cat scatrch things alot-if so how did you get him to stop-
Tela is driving me crazy-I got her a scratching post and she refuses to use it-Well I hope you have a good day
luke